Many individuals, especially well known coaches, high profile business leaders "posture" or pretend that they do not have drama or they are not vunerable to drama. The stark reality is everyone experiences drama sooner or later.
As a result of my private coaching, I have heard the secrets you will never hear in public. In addition, I've been there too, and I realize the threat of believing you're "above it all."
Here are four truths to help you confront and even welcome your drama.
1. Drama is part of life.
2. Drama keeps you real
3. Drama is a teacher
4. Overcoming drama results in freedom
Drama is an integral part of life.
This is for drama is "any obstacle to your peace or prosperity." If you certainly are a guru living on a distant mountain spending your entire time in meditation you are likely to involve some drama here and there. Yes, you will see times when you're in the flow and you think you have it all figured out. You're earning money, your relationships are rewarding and your health is excellent. Then something happens and you begin to feel unstable. The downward spiral begins. The good thing is a little drama reminds you of your humanity. Dramacool
Drama Keeps You Real
When things are getting well it's easy to have "high and mighty." I'm sure you've seen it. Someone of extraordinary status starts boasting, judging and advising, then something happens. The stock market crashes, they lose their business, their spouse leaves them. Rather than gloating, just understand that all of us eventually come face to face with drama. Going right on through it yourself keeps you real and can help you build your compassion muscle.
Drama is a Great Teacher
Most drama is in the mind. You're feeling inadequate which means you exaggerate your income. You worry that others will judge you since you lost your biggest client. You've a nagging feeling that you're never likely to succeed and you're ashamed of how you look. Could it be you can find hidden lessons on self-acceptance or authenticity? Maybe your drama is attempting to show you to not confuse where you stand with who you are. Your drama always has rich learning points if you are willing to appear inward.
Overcoming Drama Contributes to Freedom
When I first started my journey I hated my background. I struggled with my identity for the first 3 or 4 years although I was speaking professionally. Eventually, facing your fears results in freedom. Here are two questions:
1. What are you hiding?
2. What are you afraid of?
Are you hiding a business or relationship failure? Are you afraid you're not necessarily sufficient? Are you afraid you'll be regarded as a fraud? Are you secretly afraid of rejection?
The biggest fear many of us face is the fear of judgment. Judgment blocks prosperity and keeps you in a constant state of "mind drama."
When you can be who you're and never having to hide and without fearing the judgment of others then you have stopped your drama and you're free.
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